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The Senses
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Sight
a.) The room should
be dark. Check the curtains and
shades to make sure no light is getting in. All lights should be off.
If the child is afraid of the dark, a small nightlight with an
angel or friendly character on it may be used. The body needs
darkness to sleep really deeply. Light stimulates activity in the
mind and body that hinders sleep. Darkness invites sleep.
b.) If the room can’t be made dark a sleep mask may be worn. Some
children like them but If the child doesn’t like it, don’t insist.
c.) A warm wet washcloth over the eyes induces relaxation of the eyes
and sleep. Some children find this soothing, but If the child doesn’t
like it, don’t insist.
d.) Encourage the child to practice “seeing: with his/her eyes closed
and to visualize and create whatever “movie” they want to make in
their own mind.
e.) Sit with the child and ask them to “see” with their eyes closed,
a giraffe, a bird, and a carrot, a car (make up anything that might
be of interest to the child).
f.) An alternative to darkness is a blue light bulb of about 15
watts. Just enough light to paint a blue glow in the room.
g.) Another alternative to darkness is a “Star” machine” which
projects stars on the ceiling. They are available in many science
stores.
h.) Glow in the dark star stickers to paste on the ceiling are good.
These make the child feel it is under the starry sky and helps it to
fall asleep.
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Hearing
a.) The room should be absolutely quiet. It is worthwhile to put soundproof
tile on the ceiling and seal all places where noise can get through.
If it is impossible to eliminate all noise from the room, then use
music and/or environmental sounds.
b.) Soft slow music such as Mozart’s Sleepytime Music Box or other
soft classical or New Age Music will induce sleep. If you use
classical music make sure it doesn’t go from slow and soft to fast
and loud. Not all-classical music is good for sleep.
c.) A waterfall in the child’s room. You can purchase small portable
waterfalls or rock gardens with a pond that have a re-circulating
pump and create the sound of live running water. These are
self-contained and the water is constantly in motion without needing
any plumbing connections, because a pump re-circulates the water.
d.) An aquarium with fish in it that has the kind of filter that
makes a small waterfall. Then you have the sound of water AND fish to
look at.
e.) Recordings of soft nature sounds such as water and crickets
helps to induce sleep.
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Smell & Breathing
In sleep the
breathing is slow and deep with the belly rising and falling. Try to
help the child to breathe this way and sleep will soon follow. Things
that help this are:
a.) Make sure the breathing passages are clear, so the child can
breathe naturally through the nose. Breathing through the mouth
makes the throat dry and uncomfortable.
b.) If it’s winter and you have a heated home, a humidifier will keep
the air natural and comfortable to breathe.
c.) There are aromas you can purchase in the form of aromatic oils or
packs of dried plants such as sage, dried flowers etc. Natural Pine
needles are also good, oil fragrances that are good are eucalyptus
and peppermint. If you can let the child pick one out in the
store that’s even better.
d.) Cleansers and chemicals. Even those nice smelling ones can
be VERY toxic. Some researchers believe that these “cleansers” and
“air sprays” weaken the entire body and immune system at least a
little. Others believe they weaken the body a lot. Over the years
one can “mysteriously” not feel well and the doctors can find no
reason. The reason for this mysterious “not feeling well’ is years
of pollution by household “cleansers” and air “fresheners” Your house
can be just as clean with natural cleaners and the smell of fresh or
dried flowers instead of sprays.
e.) Tobacco smoke; yes your child doesn’t smoke BUT if anyone in the
house smokes near the child the child gets nicotine through the air.
Nicotine is a POWERFUL stimulant to a small child and will prevent
sleep every time.
f.) Don’t use anything artificial that has chemicals. Most chemicals
are slightly or very toxic. Even though they don’t cause obvious
symptoms, they are not natural to the body and create stress, which
can prevent sleep.
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Touch
a.)
Comfort: Make certain the bed, pajamas, sheets, covers or anything
that touches the child is comfortable. Anything hard or “itchy”
should be replaced with something soft and snuggly. Take the child
shopping to pick out their own pajamas and blanket there is great
psychological value in taking the child shopping to by his/ her own
pajamas, sheets, blankets etc.
b.) Hug, and cuddle the child so he/she feels loved and secure.
Scientific studies have shown that If there is not enough tactile
affection the child does not feel loved and feels stress, which
inhibits sleep. Let them feel loved and cared for by your
touch.
c.) Massage the child to induce relaxation, which is the main factor
in sleep. Gentle massage relaxes and puts them to sleep.
d.) The acupressure point for sleep is on the inside of the wrist
about 2 inches from where the hand meets the wrist on an adult.
Depending on the child’s’ size it will be less than 2 inches from the
wrist. You will know it because it is a “valley” and if you press
there it goes deeper down than the surrounding area. Just massage
and gently press this point for a few minutes to induce sleep.
e.) Sesame Oil massaged into the soles of the feet with a gentle
rubbing motion induces sleep quickly. This is an Ayurvedic remedy
from India.
f.) If they want a teddy bear or doll, let them have it, no matter
what age.
g.) The room should be not too hot, or cold.
h.) Rocking the child in your arms or in a cradle. Kids love motion
like this and it helps them to fall asleep.
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Taste and Nutrition
a.) Herbal teas
Chamomile Peppermint Spearmint or other herbal tea that has no
caffeine is good for the child. Don’t make it too hot as you would
for an adult and don’t put in too much sugar.
b.) Medications including aspirin produce stress on the body and keep
it from relaxing. Don’t go against your doctor, but use as few drugs
or medicines as possible. These only suppress the symptoms and don’t
cure anyway. It’s hard to get a medicine without a side effect.
Often the side effect is counter to sleep.
c.) Vitamin C and Zinc and fresh fruits will cure a cold naturally.
Coughs and asthma are cured in many people by cutting out anything
made with white flour and / or sugar. Try these natural remedies
first.
d.) Caffeine: Your child may not drink coffee or tea, BUT most
carbonated beverages have caffeine which can keep the child from
sleeping. Don’t give them at least 4 hours before bedtime. Better
yet not at all. Iced herbal teas taste better and are healthier.
e.) Sugar: The health hazards of sugar for the teeth, body and mind,
are becoming more and more known. Sugar occurs naturally in fruits
and in this form it is fine. BUT refined sugar is VERY bad for the
child. It causes alternate mood swings of hyperactivity and
depressed lethargy. ALL refined sugar should be avoided!
It’s not easy to do because it’s in most breakfast cereals, cookies
cakes ice cream and most packaged foods, but it’s well worth the
effort for a healthier child both physically and emotionally.
f.) ALCOHOL Yes I know junior doesn’t drink, BUT some Cough Medicines
and other medicines contain alcohol which acts as a stimulant to kids
and prevent sleep. Sleep is more important for the body to heal
itself that a medicine. Medicines ONLY suppress the symptoms, they
do NOT cure them. The body cures itself when given the proper
emotional environment, nutrition, rest and exercise.
g.) VITAMINS the body needs vitamins to live. The average American
diet does NOT supply all the vitamins necessary for good health.
This stresses the body and hinders sleep. Children need vitamin
supplements even more than adults.
h.) Water: Let the child drink water. If they have to get up in
the middle of the night, let it be O.K. A thirsty child can not fall
asleep easily.
i.) Don’t eat for at least 2 hours before bedtime. This way the
“business” of digestion is done and the child can sleep.
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